It was reported this week in the telegraph that over 1000 girls aged 11 and 12 have been given prescriptions for the pill. Trevor Stammers GP suggested that through this, Britain is ‘facilitating the sexualisation of younger people at an even younger age’
I would argue that the real trouble is that the sexualisation has already happened… if a young girl is at that point of needing the pill then the sexualisation process has already occurred through the influence of media and/or parents.
What is it every young person craves? Acceptance, approval and attention. There is no exception to this and the greatest society archetype of ‘Woman’ as portrayed in the media clearly facilitates this sexualisation in young girls. Unless there is a parental influence that balances this popular archetype then the young girl is bound by the message… and the message is clear; look like this, act like this, be like this and you will be seen as attractive, you will get the attention you need and you will be beautiful and be loved.
The void that is created by dysfunctional parents is ably filled by the media’s compulsive need to put woman in their box. One only has to turn on Jeremy Kyle in the mornings to see the kind of parents that many of our youth are growing up with. Now don’t pretend you haven’t watched it. I think everyone has been late for work at least once waiting for those DNA results!
Trevor Stammers told The Sunday Times: “If sex education is introduced in primary schools in the way being proposed, we will see many more 11-year-old girls seeking contraception without pointing out the risks…. We are going to make matters worse.”
Now by introducing sex education at even earlier ages it may feel like we are shortening the naivety of childhood. As far as I am aware the sex education that we are talking about being implemented is more a talking about relationships and friendships; the part that has been sadly lacking in what has traditionally been biologically focused sex education.
Traditionally the responsibility for this kind of education would have fallen to the parents…alas as we have seen on Mr Kyle’s show and as any teacher will testify there are plenty of parents out there who just do not have the skills or care to do this. So with the universal need in children for attention and affection, the void of character education left by poor parenting coupled with the Media’s keen ability to fill it, we are left with a scenario where we have no choice but to bring sex and relationship education into the frame at an earlier age. This isn’t a case of prescribing the pill too young, rather it is an invitation for us to start a dialogue about how can we as a society ensure the parents of the future are equipped to deal with the key responsibilities of parenthood!? You can read the telegraph article here